Dear Gael, I am having trouble with my step-daughter. She constantly snipes at me and criticises everything I do. For example, I have a bowl of boiled sweets,and she told me off for letting her son have some just because their out of date. She moans about my make up being old. She pours my Prosecco out of the bottle from the fridge when I’ve only had one glass. She throws away leftover food after she’s been for dinner. She is really upsetting me, and I dread her visits, even though I love to see the grandkids. I’m at my wits end, and don’t know how to handle her. Can the cards tell me what I should do? I do hope so, Love Patty.